By David Lake I know of a sure way to ruin your relationship. Be a critic. Of all the relationship poisons, this is the deadliest, over time, and guaranteed never to improve the quality of your life. I suggest that EFT is the most useful antidote to this poison. The urge to… Read More »Criticism
By Steve Wells “What the world needs now is love, sweet love It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of..”. – Lyrics by Hal David A year ago I wrote an article “Love as Therapy”, in which I argued it is love that does the healing, far beyond… Read More »What the world needs now…
This is one of the most common questions that people ask, particularly those who have been introduced to EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques). It arises because in EFT there is a need to first construct a Set-up statement which includes a description of the target problem, as well as a reminder… Read More »How Do I Know the Right Words to Say When I’m Tapping?
Over the past 15 years, I have used tapping (EFT and SET) in a large number of corporate organisations. I would like to offer the following insights for those intending to apply tapping in an organisational setting: Tapping “as is” is much too way out for the average corporate manager… Read More »Tapping in Corporations
By David Lake I maintain that relationship work is sometimes ‘fraught with peril’ due to the intensity of the painful emotional reactions unleashed in the context of bickering, struggling, fighting, and enduring the partner’s ‘doing what they do’. This is far worse than merely a ‘wrinkle in the great silk… Read More »What would love do here?
By David Lake I think it is no accident that the leaders in the field of Energy Psychology have strong spiritual connections that inform their work. This aspect of the field is not emphasized although I find it to be an integral part. I wonder whether the practice of Energy… Read More »Relationship and Spirituality
By Steve Wells In this article, originally written for EFT Creator Gary Craig’s newsletter, I outline how we can dramatically expand our results with tapping by expanding the ways we apply it. Many people approach tapping techniques like EFT and SET with a limited understanding of their potential, and use them in… Read More »Seeking Complete Freedom: Settle for Nothing Less
Steve Wells 4-part series on EFT and Self-Acceptance Personal Note from Steve Wells: No series of articles which I have written has generated as much interest as this 4-part series on Self-Acceptance which I wrote originally for Gary Craig’s EFT newsletter. Many people have written to tell me of their… Read More »Addressing Self Acceptance Issues
By David Lake “We do not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.” — (C.G.Jung) This article is about accepting our ‘dark side’ using paradoxical methods (PET). Validate means to confirm or corroborate. {Valid: having some foundation, based on truth. The archaic meaning is robust, well (Collins English Dictionary)}.… Read More »Validating Your Self
“Riches begin with a state of mind, with definiteness of purpose, with little or no hard work. You and every other person ought to be interested in knowing how to acquire that state of mind which will attract riches.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich By Steve Wells EFT… Read More »Tap and be Rich