By Dr. David Lake
“The art of medicine consists of amusing the patient while nature cures the disease.” (Voltaire)
Much of the confusion relating to results of EFT—and ‘tapping’ generally—is because of the way these results are described—a language problem. An added problem is the intellectual conflict between ‘orthodox’ and ‘natural’ medicine. The end result of this process can be “over-promising” results and a misguided enthusiasm.
It seems likely that the use of tapping will move out into the population via self-help, and spread that way. It won’t necessarily be promulgated by those trained in critical thinking. Most people don’t think scientifically. But it is common sense to talk about what works and what doesn’t, according to experience and training. When you consider that EFT is being used predominantly as self-help then we need some precision in describing what is currently possible to do. Otherwise, “try it on everything” might mean “I should be able to make it work on everything” and if I can’t then it’s my fault.
Here are some definitions from Dictionary.com (my emphases):
TREAT: to deal with (a disease, patient, etc.) in order to relieve or cure.
CURE: a means of healing or restoring to health; remedy; successful remedial treatment;restoration to health.
HEAL: to make healthy, whole, or sound; restore to health; free from ailment.
ALLEVIATE: to make easier to endure; lessen; mitigate: to alleviate sorrow; to alleviate pain.
Obviously using these words carries a heavy responsibility. There is nothing worse than giving people false hope. Let’s be quite clear what we are doing when we use tapping.
Here are some vague terms often bandied about in the treatment of subtle and complex conditions. Using these might imply to the gullible that you are healing or curing when in fact you are often merely assisting a remedial process to a minor or moderate degree (alleviating). Possibly you are relieving a symptom while the disease process continues unchecked (this is potentially dangerous, especially for head, chest and eye pains). All practitioners could slip up here.
FIX
SORT OUT
RESOLVE
HELP WITH
REMOVE
REBALANCE
Bear in mind that EFT is not a therapy in itself, it is a technique. The therapeutic aspects of EFT as it has been taught by Gary Craig owe a great deal to NLP (Neurolinguistic programming) which in turn is derived from the work of Milton Erickson and others such as Frank Farrelly. They were trained in basic psychological medicine, hypnotherapy, groupwork and psychotherapy, at length).
How many orthodox practitioners realise that when patients go to alternative practitioners it is often because they want to feel empowered and capable of helping manage their own conditions? And that ordinary people can't distinguish between snake oil and science much of the time? That they don't understand modern medicine at all? That taking modern drugs seems the 'wrong' thing to do, especially antibiotics (even when needed) or antidepressants (sometimes a complex issue involving self-criticism and blame). Often it seems that medical statements by doctors are so qualified and hedged and statistical that it seems there is little certainty of a good outcome when in fact the chances might be excellent! Statistics apply only to groups and not necessarily to any individual.
While the world of evidence-based medicine can be restrictive and rigid because of the actual lack of such evidence, at least the treatment protocols are put to the test with more than anecdotal evidence. Since it has taken several decades for enough evidence for relaxation therapy to enter this framework, I don’t think EFT is going to make it any time soon! This is because there is relatively little formal evidence that there is any scientific basis for tapping. This doesn’t bother me too much as long as it is safe and effective within its own limits.
On the other hand, ignorance of the basic condition and of past efforts by those in other fields, compounds the problem. This is a mistrust of the best aspects of science, evidence-gathering and 'critical thinking' skills. In other words, an opposition to orthodox medical approaches. How many alternative practitioners in the 'psychological' area—using EFT freely— have looked at, or even know of, a book called the DSM 4 (a descriptive book on psychological disorders and presentations)? I often get blank looks when I mention it. How many of these practitioners have a grounding in any formal therapy? How many people comment on the treatment of depression without ever qualifying their comments to distinguish between types or grades of depression? The basics are important.
Both branches of medicine can help. Read Dr William E. Hablitzel’s new book “12 Secrets For Healing” if you want to know more (see http://www.storiesandhealing.com/).
I think the truth is quite suitable as a starting point in assessing and delivering EFT results. Gary Craig frequently says (words to the effect) in his teaching materials that: “we don’t know if it can help…but let’s give it a try!” I encourage everybody to do this— and then assess the results. There are countless examples of the body’s innate ability to heal, and tapping contributes to this strongly, in my opinion. Words and language are very important here as they can go directly to the positive or negative beliefs we have, both as practitioner and sufferer. When a serious illness (cancer, multi-system disease, degenerative conditions) is present, and you wish to use tapping to heal, here is the truth in a single sentence:
“With every serious condition there is always a group of people that do well; to be in that group, and stay in that group, there are many helpful things you need to learn, and using tapping is one of the better ones”.
It is the therapeutic aspects of using any technique that are just as important as the practical outcome; the subtle communication of optimism and hope, the relational aspects for the client of being heard, understood and even accepted, the possibilities of change and improvement (avoiding the feeling of helplessness), the mutual aim, the connection and empathy, the harnessing of the healing process in a special environment, for example. Some would call it a spiritual endeavour. But this is another subject.
What do you think? We would love to read your comments…
5 Replies to “The Importance of Being Precise”
Hi David
I wholeheartedly agree.
I am becoming increasingly concerned about EFT therapists who are confidently taking clients with very serious mental health problems, whilst their training and supervised practial experience in dealing with these issues is nil.
In my opinion, it’s not good enough to have had a friend or a family member with similar problems. This does not give the depth of experience and specialised knowledge necessary to deal with what may be a potential time-bomb. And no, I don’t think that people with conditions such as Schizophrenia are dangerous monsters. To my inexperienced mind, presenting issues may well be masking or balancing much larger problems and I agree with Gary Craig that we shouldn’t go where we don’t belong.
There is also the issue that the client may well manipulate the therapist. To give an example. I have a child with learning difficulties. This means that they often play up in school until we can get to the source of the frustration. When I was going through a very stressful time because my child was very unhappy in school, my EFT therapist stated very confidently that it was always the parents to blame in cases like this and I found myself booked for a session.
When I got there, I realised that I was a complete idiot to allow someone to undermine me in such a way. I then proceeded to lead the therapist down some very simple EFT alleyways that I was perfectly capable of negotiating for myself at home – for free. Did I mention that I’m a moral coward as well as an idiot?
I would hate to see such a powerful and empowering tool as this brought into disrepute by a lack of self-regulation.
Best wishes.
Tess
Personally, I do not think that EFT can directly heal the body. I think it relieves the mind so the perfect spiritual nature can then do it’s work. It is all in the thinking and EFT helps the thinking.
At the same time, I don’t ignore the efforts of Medical Science. You can’t prove one thing by denying something else. That is a conflict.
“Render unto Caesar that which is Caesar’s and render unto the Lord that which is the Lords.” No conflict there. The bible always speaks of a marriage between spirit and flesh and also that agreements are stronger than oppositions.
The magic word in scripture is ‘let’. (Col 3:16) When we try to force we actually get in the way. Letting is easy, and fun.
Lots more to this…
Hi David, I’ve met you at a couple of yours and Steve’s workshops in Sydney and want to tell you I always enjoy your insightful comments. EFT is a technique and is very powerful and I love using it but it has its limitations as does any modality. So approaching its use from the angle you suggest above is very gentle and hopeful and empowering without dangling “miracle cure” status, which can lead to disappointment if or when it doesn’t achieve what that particular individual was hoping for and then means they dismiss it as hooey.
Warm regards, Elizabeth
#1. good critical thinking skills are not optional; even though we may only be conscious, at our best of perhaps 20,000 bits of information going on in our mental activity (as compared to the 20 billion bits in which we are actually mentally engaged), we need to think as well and lucidly as we can with what we do know. Otherwise, we create harm for ourselves and others, inevitably, with our careless treatment of observable phenomena
#2. we do not know who we really are, exhaustively or with entirely dependable accuracy. And therefore, cannot possibly predict — anything. Including, with total accuracy, the results we will achieve with any protocol (from the making of morning toast, to E.F.T. and related therapies)
#3. control creates uncertainty
Therefore, I would suggest we do “try it (E.F.T.) on everything, but just allow some open room in our thinking (and hearts) for uncertainty, for (as we see it), better or for worse, as this will allow us to stay present, integrated and accepting of whatever arises in any given moment. As the Zen folks would say, “Don’t know”.
Thanks for your thougtful, considering article. As a person who has “hard” evidence (ultrasound, before and after, of a large, painful growth in the abdomen that “miraculously” shrank away, subsequent to engaging with energy medicine therapy) of genuine, outside the conventional box healing, I know such protocols as E.F.T. can and do facilitate (not create, in my opinion) dramatic, “impossible” healing. But not altogether, ever, predictably so.
“The universe is not only stranger than we know, it is stranger than we can know.”
– J.B.S. Haldane
( I have taken the liberty of substituting the word” stranger” for “queerer” in this quotation, as the meaning has shifted)
Great blog. Do you know of any relevant forums or discussion groups?